Nothing is permanent in life

In life nothing is permanent, everything is temporary that means your sorrows and pain too have an end. Even the darkest night will end and the sun will rise. People take everything in life to be permanent love, hate, sorrow, friends, family and that is when they grow a tree of expectedness from others, and that is when they get hurt when the same tree mould with one's belief and trust fall without any warning unexpectedly and people get depressed isolated and hide their true identity behind a fake smile keeping every memories safe in a corner of their heart.

Well its so common in us, its so natural in human. The only medicine or cure to this problem is that we start to believe that everything is temporary and happens for a reason and rather finding out the reason for what happened (fall of tree of expectedness) we should focus on the good things it happened for and what lies ahead. No this doesn't advocate to move on. Moving on is not the solution. It is like moving on from the present scenario to get stuck in another one. It is like leaving one person and getting another one and the cycle continues with no end in sight.

There is a simple theory to happiness- Expect less from others and start to believe that everything in life is temporary, because when we expect less that every bit of success counts and fill the heart with pure oxygen with peace eliminating every spot of illness making us healthier, happy and immune to defeat pain and sorrow, and that small success motivates us to work for things of greater purpose, greater importance having a true value and something which is worth while to live and die for.

These are 5 mantras for simple and happy life:

1. Except nothing from others.
2. Never attach your happiness with people. People change and that should not affect your happiness.
3. Always believe in yourself because when nobody believe in you then you might have atleast one person standing by your side.
4. Have faith everything is temporary, sorrow, hate, pain everything that has a beginning surely has an end.
5. If you want to do something, now is the right time , and never regret your decision.

Hope you enjoyed my philosophy about attachments and being happy. Do comment and share your views. Till then Happy Reading !!!!

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